Kaliwa o Kanan? Equations

In response to Noi's "She's was the one" posted on his facebook notes.

"Ang pagmamahal hindi basta basta.. wag umasa sa nakikita lang.. pagsisihan niyo rin un sa huli.." -Noi

Kaliwa ka ba o Kanan magisip? Have you ever heard of the left brain and right brain debate?

It is said that left brain hemisphere are for people who arrange sequences, events, solves a problem or decides in an orderly manner, linear or logical way, more like analytical rather than emotional or seeing the big picture the right brain hemisphere is.


Balance is the most important thing on enhancing your left or right hemisphere. Decision making is still free. For me Decision + Action = Life. We are the one who holds our path. Our heart beats from the inside. Our nutshell is still inside our skulls. God made it to be inside so we can feel it. So we can listen to it.

A person told me "Eh sa ganun ang tinadhana sa kanya eh..." I just said to her. "Tinadhana? Pinili niya yun"

Ang buhay ay hindi sa kung ano ang nasusulat.. Kung hindi sa kung ano ang isinulat o isinusulat. One more equation : Dreams + Motivation = Fulfillment(Destiny)

There are many factors to consider in choosing your boyfriend or girlfriend. Sexy? Macho?  Matalino? Gwapo? Panget? Slim? Skinny? Malusog ang kinabukasan? Mabait ang parents? Matangkad? Kasing height ko? Chubby? Maputi? Balingkinitan? Moreno? Morena? May Trabaho? May Kotse? Tambay? Matapang? Masipag? Tahimik? Maingay? Komedyante? Korni? Malinis? Mabango? Simple? At napakarami pang iba.

Pero sa huli simple lang ang tanong. Boyfriend ba o Girlfriend lang ang hanap mo o Taong sasama sayo hanggang sa maputi na ang buhok mo o umabot pa man sa hukay mo?

Pinili mo yun?

"Kung nagmahal ka ng taong di dapat at nasaktan ka, wag mong sisihin ang puso mo. Tumitibok lng yan para mag-supply ng dugo sa katawan mo. Ngayon, kung magaling ka sa anatomy at ang sisisihin mo naman ay ang hypothalamus mo na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, mali ka pa rin! Bakit? Utang na loob! Wag mong isisi sa body organs mo ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! Tandaan mo: magiging masaya ka lang kung matututo kang tanggapin na hindi ang puso, utak, atay o bituka mo ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, kundi IKAW mismo!"  - Bob Ong

"Pinili mo yun. Nasarapan ka naman diba? Masakit nga lang sa huli."








Don't blame other people for causing you so much heartache in life. Don't blame your heart because you followed it. "Walang tangang puso parang awa mo na". Don't blame your dreams because you always dream of her or him. "Di sana ngayong nasaktan ka di ka na gumising. Namatay ka na lang sana. Di ka pa nakaperwisyo!" 


People make their own choices. We choose to love someone at all cost because we choose it. Keep this in mind. "Di mo masisise kahit sino pag nag - tae ka. kasi hawak mo naman ang kutsara at tinidor mo. ikaw ang pumipili ng kakainin mo. Di mo ba nakita panis na?"


You can't turn back time by saying "ifs" and "buts" grow up and take a step foot forward. face the reality that what you have is now. You made a wrong decision before then why commit another shitfull thing na di mo man lang aayusin ang gagawin mung pagpile. Love is not like "feeling butterflies circling around you

Asa ka ulet?

In response to "asa ka naman".

Pano kung wala ng pagasa?

1. (Manliligaw Part) - Tama na. Nagpapakabulag ka na lang at umaasa ka na mayroong pagmamahal kahit wala naman talaga at never naman talaga nagkaroon ng something special sa inyo.
2. (Rebound Part) - Heart Broken siya kaya the time you expressed your love for him or her eh di sadyang naabuso nya yun kasi he or she need someone who can give comfort on his or her broken heart. "Kala moh meron pero wala.wala.wala"
3. (The Friendly Part) - Friends kayo. Nagkataon na pag tingin mo sa kanya eh tinamaan ng lintik ka. Na inlove ka. Sinira mo pagkakaibigan nyo para lang maipadama pagmamahal mo sa kanya.
4. (Broken Part) - Ikaw naman ang broken hearted. Nagkataon na dumating sya sa buhay mo at inisip mo na siya ang magliligtas sa kahibangan mo pero hindi pa din pala. Emo ka lng masyado. Feeling mo bumaba na si superman o superwoman kasi pinapasaya ka nya.
5. (Long Distance Part) - Ang layo niya. Di mo alam kung ano ba pinagkaka kaabalahan nya. Naniniwla ka pa din na mahal ka niya kahit na siya na din minsan yung nagbibigay ng dahilan para iwanan mo siya. You're trying to work on things kahit na duda ka na kasi naniniwala ka sa long distance relationship pero niloloko ka naman.
6. (Flirt Part) - "Di lahat ng magkasama nagmamahalan" malay mo flirt lang pala yung katabi mu ngayon. Tanga mo na inlove ka. Ayaw na nya syo kasi bka masaktan ka niya.
7. (Paasa Part) - Sinabihan ka niya na hintayin mo siya. For whatever reason di pala yun totoo lahat. Ano magagawa mo? Di na niya matandaan kung kelan nya sinabi yun. At anung petsa.
8. (Bitter Part) - Galit ka na sa mga guys or girls at sinasabing manloloko lang yan. Wala na matino sa mundo. gagamitin ka lang. Tapos tatapon ka na pag pinagsawaan ka na. Masakit para sayo yun. Itatanim mo sa puso mo yun at mahihirapan ka na magbukas ng pintuan para sa ibang kakatok sa puso mo.
9. (Complicated Part) - Ang daming complications niyo sa buhay. Ayaw mo na. Gusto nya pa. Gusto mo pa. Ayaw naman na nya. Hanggang maguluhan ka na at maglaho na lang bigla
10.(Family and Affiliates Part) - Ayaw ng pamilya nya sayo, Inis kapatid niya sayo. Masakit yun para sa inyo. Tapos di ka niya pinaglaban. Sinabi nya na lng - "May Magmamahal pa sayo"


Well...Just keep hoping. Someway - Somehow, you'll find someone na pag hinawakan mo yung kamay nya eh mararamdaman mo na fit kayo sa isat isa. Ang love pag dumating na sa puso mo wala na madami kwento and animations. Don't dream of a movie. Turn things into reality!. Di  pa magtatapos mundo mo pag iniwan ka niya. Gigising ka bukas me muta ka pa din sa mata mo!

Love or get lost! Asa ka ulet!

Men are Dorks

 I was hopping around my network and it happened that i passed by on her blog

"Men from my time are DORKS! If the story of sleeping beauty happens today it would end up with sleeping beauty being sexually molested."

or Snow White and the 7 Maniac Dwarfs.lol

May be dahil sa past experiences nya. Siguro may nasalubong syang lasing at humihingi ng kiss mula sa kanya... Siguro pag napapadaan sya sa kanto nila eh me pumipito sa kanya.

Those DORKS are loosers my friend.

Don't loose hope on the fact that soon you'll find someone who will treat you well. He'll comfort you and treat you the best that he can. Yung susunduin ka after work Yung pupunta sa bahay mo pag masama pakiramdam mo. Someone who trully cares. You're pretty inside and out. It is not neccessary that you go on a gym just to keep your body in shape para may magkagusto sayo.

If love happens, Ma pa ano ka pa. Ma pa ano pang figure mo. Scarface ka pa. Pogi. Panget o Maganda. Love is love. No measuring sticks para sabihin mo na "Ay Gusto ko Sya!!!"

Oh well. I miss you my friend. Keep fighting. Soon you'll get what you deserve.

Better Choice

"Because the girl has a choice, we must be her better choice"


We've been together for 7 months and 5 days. We've been into heartaches and yet we made it, and weathered the storm. Back then i thought that love happens in a single click but i was wrong.

Yes our relationship came on a single touch of our fingertips. My love is like a surprise gift wrapped into a newspaper so no one can say whether she is getting a cadbury or a tsok-nat.


I remember that day that Aihl told me "find someone to love, you got so much love in your heart" and then there it was.

All those EX's and Flings that makes me jealous and go crazy.All those memories of love that she shares listed in her memory. All those "naaalala ko dati...ay wag na lang" flashbacks. All those names that keeps bugging her that makes me become a lunatic. All those places that she has been in.

...I grinned on those days or should I say, I smirk.

"Because Michel has a choice., I must be her better choice"


I worked hard to get this far...we worked hard to get this far!